This pamphlet goes over the following topics on the ways of helping a child who is grieving: the importance of being open & honest about death; listening as one of the most helpful parts of the healing process; explaining what happens at a funeral; giving the child choices about how to grieve, & how to say goodbye. It also goes over the part of the healing process that involves remembering the person who died & respecting the fact that there will be differnces in grieving styles. (LS)