Although the author’s research was carried out mainly in the United Kingdom, it has relevance in most countries in which Hindus are a minority of the population. It shows that ignoring the norms of other cultures can cause needless distress to families before & after bereavement. On the other hand, by showing sensitivity & respect for such customs, one can not only assuage some of the pains of their grief, but also reduce the alienation & resentment that so often arises between cultures. (20 refs)